Tisha B'Av 2002

USY,

Writing a message that should seek spark some sort of thought for an entire summer was a difficult task, most likely because of all the things that go on during the summer months. Many of us will have amazing experiences on a USY Summer Trip or at a camp. Others will spend their days at home, yet will have their own experiences during the summer Shabbatot, the three weeks, and Tisha B’Av. Having one idea, one experience or concept to focus on for this message would therefore me too narrow in focus.

This summer we read the megillah of Eicha on Tisha B’Av. The root of Eicha comes from the Hebrew question-word meaning “How?” How could something of the magnitude of the events commemorated on Tisha B’Av occur? It is not surprising that we find a question in the name of a Jewish text, for learning, for growing from experiences, come ultimately from asking questions. Thus, I will give you several questions to ponder on this summer:

• Who?
  Who can I find in my own life that can help me grow as a person, and as a Jew? Pirke Avot says, "Select a master-teacher for yourself; acquire a colleague for study…” (1:6). Learning and having Jewish experiences is only enhanced when done with another person, or in your own community. A friend, a fellow USYer, your Rabbi, or anyone in your life can represent someone that can help you grow.
• What?
  What is one thing that, by summer’s end, I wish to learn? Set a goal for yourself, whether it be going to schul every week, learning a new service or religious skill, or simply taking time during the day to daven…pick one thing that sparks your interest.
• Where?
  Where do I want to be by summer’s end? One of the most important things anyone can do is try and ‘hit the mark,’ that inexplicable spot that we often wish to obtain….but feel that there never is enough time to get there. Check out our Bringing it Home pamphlets online to see about how you can make certain practices a part of your life in your own path of observance and growing as a Jew.
• Why?
  Why is it important for me to grow as a Jew? No matter how much encouragement one may receive, unless one feels that your task has meaning to it, then you are fulfilling empty goals. Constantly ask yourself why it is you wish to be where you are, which can only allow you to move forward.

Summer is an incredible time to experience growth and development; take time to read a good book, or learn a little more about something you are interested in. Asking yourself questions can only encourage you to think more about goals and aspirations you have for yourself. May each of us find this summer to be a rewarding and fulfilling time. As always, when I am here, you can always email me at jsrabin@erols.com or IM me at BigRabe02.

B’hatzlacha,
Joshua Scott Rabin
USY Religion/Education Vice-President